Candy Pangilinan recalls painful experience towards her ex husband and his numerous cheating.
According to the actress, looking back, she was beyond devastated about what happened, but she is now using that experience as a blessing to see the new world on a much wider and brighter perspective.
Candy is married to a non-showbiz guy, and they were in a relationship for almost 10 years before they tied the knot.
“Even before kami kinasal, meron na akong mga nahuli.
“Pero kasi, di ba, yung babae, feeling mo people change? Feeling ko a baby will save it—so nabuntis ako—but no.” she revealed on Toni’s recent vlog, Toni Talks.
Added her, “Before I gave birth, nandiyan pa naman siya, pero sinasabi niya sa akin na iiwanan niya ako,
At least, nag-aabiso! In-inform niya ako.”
Candy then start being serious about her double struggle with her pregnancy, “Hindi ko makakalimutan yun. I was very pregnant then,’
“To make the long story short, I gave birth. After a month I gave birth, hindi na siya umuwi.”
“Nagpaalam naman siya sa akin. Sinabi niya maggo-golf siya.
“Tapos yun, hindi ko na alam kung anong butas ang tinira niya.” she said, laughing.
Candy then went on, “Hindi na siya umuwi. Baka nakalaban niya si Tiger Woods. Hindi ako na-inform.”
DEALING WITH THE SPLIT UP
According to Candy, not only it was a challenge of heart, but also a battle with her faith.
But luckily, the comedian was able to get through it all.
“Alam mo yung minsan, kasi when you get everything you want, feeling mo kontrolado mo. ‘Hindi, kaya ko ito. Para siyang laruan na di ko makuha.
“‘Tsaka in love ako. Pinakasalan ko.
“Umabot ako sa, ‘Kailangan ko patawarin. Sabi sa Bible, patawarin ko ito.'”
For Candy, ignoring signs of cheating in order to keep the family was something that brought her more pain.
“There were so many signs in front of us, pero dahil sa tigas ng ulo, dahil gusto natin, we still continue what we want.
“Even though God is sending us so many signs. Alam mo na, e. Pero ang tigas ng ulo mo.
“You don’t want to follow God’s will.”
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